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		<title>By: Wilma</title>
		<link>http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/07/05/are-we-lovable-enough-to-attract-love/#comment-9689</link>
		<dc:creator>Wilma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 23:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Kristie, you rock too as I find your responses so encouraging. &lt;strong&gt;There is so much more to being love in action than as you say being nice and kind&lt;/strong&gt;. Okay, that greases the wheel of interaction BUT is not the ultimate collaboration that needs to take place to have for example nature flourish as it once did. 
We have 14 Topics in &lt;em&gt;&lt;a title=&quot;WomenLikeMe Homepage&quot; href=&quot;http://womenlikemeonline.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #b3286b;&quot;&gt;Women&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #abc526;&quot;&gt;Like&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff6c00;&quot;&gt;Me&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; that all relate to being love in action and being lovable. 
Being in integrity for example is being lovable, the oil spill is a result of all of humanity being collectively out of integrity and nature and we suffer greatly from that. 
&lt;strong&gt;THAT oil disaster is the ultimate result of us being unlovable by our actions. &lt;/strong&gt; Think about that!
I am so thrilled you see the bigger picture. Altering our behavior, will alter how we are BE-ing in this world and how we relate to each other, food, our environment and everything will become healthy again, I mean &lt;em&gt;everything&lt;/em&gt;. We act unhealthy and that is what we can relearn, to act healthy again and then we will become lovable to &lt;em&gt;everything&lt;/em&gt; in our world. 
I am excited that you are starting to see the bigger picture here, much love to you Wilma</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Kristie, you rock too as I find your responses so encouraging. <strong>There is so much more to being love in action than as you say being nice and kind</strong>. Okay, that greases the wheel of interaction BUT is not the ultimate collaboration that needs to take place to have for example nature flourish as it once did.<br />
We have 14 Topics in <em><a title="WomenLikeMe Homepage" href="http://womenlikemeonline.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><strong><span style="color: #b3286b;">Women</span><span style="color: #abc526;">Like</span><span style="color: #ff6c00;">Me</span></strong></a></em> that all relate to being love in action and being lovable.<br />
Being in integrity for example is being lovable, the oil spill is a result of all of humanity being collectively out of integrity and nature and we suffer greatly from that.<br />
<strong>THAT oil disaster is the ultimate result of us being unlovable by our actions. </strong> Think about that!<br />
I am so thrilled you see the bigger picture. Altering our behavior, will alter how we are BE-ing in this world and how we relate to each other, food, our environment and everything will become healthy again, I mean <em>everything</em>. We act unhealthy and that is what we can relearn, to act healthy again and then we will become lovable to <em>everything</em> in our world.<br />
I am excited that you are starting to see the bigger picture here, much love to you Wilma</p>
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		<title>By: Kristie Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristie Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 19:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wilma,

I absolutely love this post and I know it will do me great good. To answer your questions:

1.) I&#039;ve only thought whether I was loveable in the context of Love in Action that you speak of a couple of times. I think I&#039;ve mostly thought of whether I was friendly or likable and only recently have I thought about if I&#039;m loveable. I will definitely be working on this.

2.) I believe I am open to support, but talking honestly is a whole other ball game when it comes to the ego. I feel like when I talk about things I&#039;d like to do or what is important to me, I really have to make sure my ego is in check for what the other person&#039;s response may be. I like that I keep it in check, but sometimes it&#039;s hard and I feel sometimes like it&#039;s unnatural.

3.) I try not to attack the people I love too much. My boyfriend and I are pretty passionate though so it does happen. We have our own views of things and I think we clash sometimes because we are worried that the other person doesn&#039;t have the same views. It can definitely be exhausting.

I also must say that I loved that you thought about all the people you are inspiring when you became &quot;Love in Action&quot; again. That is such a brilliant move and I look forward to using it myself. To help create not only a better me, but a better world.

You rock Wilma!

Love,
Kristie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wilma,</p>
<p>I absolutely love this post and I know it will do me great good. To answer your questions:</p>
<p>1.) I&#8217;ve only thought whether I was loveable in the context of Love in Action that you speak of a couple of times. I think I&#8217;ve mostly thought of whether I was friendly or likable and only recently have I thought about if I&#8217;m loveable. I will definitely be working on this.</p>
<p>2.) I believe I am open to support, but talking honestly is a whole other ball game when it comes to the ego. I feel like when I talk about things I&#8217;d like to do or what is important to me, I really have to make sure my ego is in check for what the other person&#8217;s response may be. I like that I keep it in check, but sometimes it&#8217;s hard and I feel sometimes like it&#8217;s unnatural.</p>
<p>3.) I try not to attack the people I love too much. My boyfriend and I are pretty passionate though so it does happen. We have our own views of things and I think we clash sometimes because we are worried that the other person doesn&#8217;t have the same views. It can definitely be exhausting.</p>
<p>I also must say that I loved that you thought about all the people you are inspiring when you became &#8220;Love in Action&#8221; again. That is such a brilliant move and I look forward to using it myself. To help create not only a better me, but a better world.</p>
<p>You rock Wilma!</p>
<p>Love,<br />
Kristie</p>
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		<title>By: Wilma</title>
		<link>http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/07/05/are-we-lovable-enough-to-attract-love/#comment-9645</link>
		<dc:creator>Wilma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Joy, what you say here is sheer beauty. &lt;blockquote&gt;Yes, filling yourself with love; It is important to me to share pure Energy, pure Love..so I make the time to grow that in my life..sharing less than pure with myself or others only helps the weeds to grow..I want each garden to blossom..beginning with mine..then sharing from my own abundance as I help tend others….&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Isn&#039;t that sad that giving to yourself was considered selfish, oh my but I do admire that you were strong enough to still love yourself; 
&lt;blockquote&gt;I’ve always loved myself; yet I was raised in such a way that giving to myself at all was considered selfish so there were times i neglected myself although I still loved…&lt;/blockquote&gt;
And if we were on a mountaintop or at sea, yes the mud of this earthly world would not touch us. However your love is strong, and how can we be honest when we only love others and not ourselves; that actually doesn&#039;t make sense so saying that you love others is only honest when you love your self, otherwise it is the ego talking. All beautifully expressed Joy. Much love, Wilma</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Joy, what you say here is sheer beauty.<br />
<blockquote>Yes, filling yourself with love; It is important to me to share pure Energy, pure Love..so I make the time to grow that in my life..sharing less than pure with myself or others only helps the weeds to grow..I want each garden to blossom..beginning with mine..then sharing from my own abundance as I help tend others….</p></blockquote>
<p>Isn&#8217;t that sad that giving to yourself was considered selfish, oh my but I do admire that you were strong enough to still love yourself; </p>
<blockquote><p>I’ve always loved myself; yet I was raised in such a way that giving to myself at all was considered selfish so there were times i neglected myself although I still loved…</p></blockquote>
<p>And if we were on a mountaintop or at sea, yes the mud of this earthly world would not touch us. However your love is strong, and how can we be honest when we only love others and not ourselves; that actually doesn&#8217;t make sense so saying that you love others is only honest when you love your self, otherwise it is the ego talking. All beautifully expressed Joy. Much love, Wilma</p>
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		<title>By: Wilma</title>
		<link>http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/07/05/are-we-lovable-enough-to-attract-love/#comment-9644</link>
		<dc:creator>Wilma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Hilary, we cannot communicate well, you are spot on and being lovable means communicating info that adds value. So I support what you wrote here;&lt;blockquote&gt;We don’t communicate .. if we did it would help more – let people know what’s going on – People don’t take responsibility .. &lt;/blockquote&gt;
We all have learned bad behavior that supports the sleazy ego way of doing things and it certainly is NOT making us lovable. We tell white lies, we do not return phone calls, we say &#039;yes&#039; and mean &#039;no&#039; and on and on it goes and then we wonder why people get upset with us. When we learn to communicate, be in-integrity, be authentic and the wholesome &#039;what is so&#039; we will all be love-in-action by default. I am convinced of that.
Yes, at the moment there is a lot of ungainly ego behavior around us and getting too upset about it will not serve anybody, so indeed Hilary, take care of yourself while you do your best to get things done. Hugs Wilma</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Hilary, we cannot communicate well, you are spot on and being lovable means communicating info that adds value. So I support what you wrote here;<br />
<blockquote>We don’t communicate .. if we did it would help more – let people know what’s going on – People don’t take responsibility .. </p></blockquote>
<p>We all have learned bad behavior that supports the sleazy ego way of doing things and it certainly is NOT making us lovable. We tell white lies, we do not return phone calls, we say &#8216;yes&#8217; and mean &#8216;no&#8217; and on and on it goes and then we wonder why people get upset with us. When we learn to communicate, be in-integrity, be authentic and the wholesome &#8216;what is so&#8217; we will all be love-in-action by default. I am convinced of that.<br />
Yes, at the moment there is a lot of ungainly ego behavior around us and getting too upset about it will not serve anybody, so indeed Hilary, take care of yourself while you do your best to get things done. Hugs Wilma</p>
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		<title>By: Wilma</title>
		<link>http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/07/05/are-we-lovable-enough-to-attract-love/#comment-9643</link>
		<dc:creator>Wilma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 03:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Justin, that is indeed a very important thing to keep in mind; “What matters more is if we find our way back to love”. 
Love-in-action is not something we do automatically, so it pays to be aware. xox Wilma</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Justin, that is indeed a very important thing to keep in mind; “What matters more is if we find our way back to love”.<br />
Love-in-action is not something we do automatically, so it pays to be aware. xox Wilma</p>
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