Comments on: Ann-Marie on The Third Person in our Relationships http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/ Being a strong basecamp Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:43:42 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Ann-Marie http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/#comment-8123 Ann-Marie Tue, 09 Feb 2010 09:07:03 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=3728#comment-8123 Angelia, I am so relieved to hear that you are wising up to the ego. It is such a powerful force and has so many facets to it. I am astounded at the complete havoc it causes. The first step to diffuse it is to recognise when it is having it's say which is far easier daid than done. So much of the ego hides out in the blind spot and we don't even see it. Honesty and seeing the wholesome 'what is so' is a strong tactic to take with the ego, so go you and keep chipping away and stripping that negative force. Sharing is the key to unlocking all of this, and you Angelia are a big part of this. You too are a blessing. Hugs to you Ann-Marie Angelia,
I am so relieved to hear that you are wising up to the ego. It is such a powerful force and has so many facets to it. I am astounded at the complete havoc it causes. The first step to diffuse it is to recognise when it is having it’s say which is far easier daid than done. So much of the ego hides out in the blind spot and we don’t even see it.
Honesty and seeing the wholesome ‘what is so’ is a strong tactic to take with the ego, so go you and keep chipping away and stripping that negative force.
Sharing is the key to unlocking all of this, and you Angelia are a big part of this.
You too are a blessing. Hugs to you Ann-Marie

]]> By: Angelia http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/#comment-7951 Angelia Fri, 29 Jan 2010 19:23:49 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=3728#comment-7951 Ann Marie, What a honest powerful message you have shared. It really enlightened me to how powerful the ego really is. I've had some struggles lately with ego. Mine is very, very stubborn. My saving grace was being honest with myself and therefore stripping it's negative force. I love how you came together, to listen, and work togther. Then to share your story so we could relate. What a blessing to me. Thank you! Ann Marie,

What a honest powerful message you have shared. It really enlightened me to how powerful the ego really is. I’ve had some struggles lately with ego. Mine is very, very stubborn. My saving grace was being honest with myself and therefore stripping it’s negative force.

I love how you came together, to listen, and work togther. Then to share your story so we could relate. What a blessing to me. Thank you!

]]> By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/#comment-7915 Wilma Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:26:55 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=3728#comment-7915 Hi Megan, I do not believe you are a spectator, you are engaging in togetherness I am sure. I love what you say here; "Maybe the trick is remaining centered in our hearts even when things get difficult beyond recognition." I would say that you expand on that very well in your latest post. I love how that is about staying heart centered and daring to go beyond what your ego perceives as status quo and daring to go to your own new authentic definitions. Megan, that is what we are on about here as well, daring to follow your heart and going to a 'what is so' that is wholesome and loving and daring to let go of what you think should be. AND I love that you also acknowledged SuZen's support as that so reflects what she expressed here as well, how blessed we are that we all are in this together. Megan, in my books you are far more than a spectator, love Wilma Hi Megan, I do not believe you are a spectator, you are engaging in togetherness I am sure.
I love what you say here; “Maybe the trick is remaining centered in our hearts even when things get difficult beyond recognition.”
I would say that you expand on that very well in your latest post.
I love how that is about staying heart centered and daring to go beyond what your ego perceives as status quo and daring to go to your own new authentic definitions.
Megan, that is what we are on about here as well, daring to follow your heart and going to a ‘what is so’ that is wholesome and loving and daring to let go of what you think should be. AND I love that you also acknowledged SuZen’s support as that so reflects what she expressed here as well, how blessed we are that we all are in this together.
Megan, in my books you are far more than a spectator, love Wilma

]]> By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/#comment-7914 Wilma Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:13:57 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=3728#comment-7914 Oh Hilary, single or married, connectedness can be missing and having a partner is no guarantee that there is togetherness and that is so sad. Having a partner can even prevent getting togetherness as you think that what you have is togetherness when it actually is not. I do agree that we need to seek togetherness at an even wider scale, within living communities so that we all can have it, single, old, young, whatever age or stage. Even family like siblings or parents is not always a community in which we have togetherness. I think togetherness full stop is something most of us do not have. Most of us have parallel relationships without even knowing that aligned ones exists or how they look like. At the moment where most of us have a chance to find aligned togetherness is in communities of our choice, like here on this blog and in the blogging community, at WomenLikeMe and everywhere else where people are seeking change in how they communicate together. So where we think we should find togetherness most of us don't, so Hilary I am pleased to have you here to enjoy your company and your astute comments, long may this continue, love Wilma Oh Hilary, single or married, connectedness can be missing and having a partner is no guarantee that there is togetherness and that is so sad. Having a partner can even prevent getting togetherness as you think that what you have is togetherness when it actually is not.
I do agree that we need to seek togetherness at an even wider scale, within living communities so that we all can have it, single, old, young, whatever age or stage.
Even family like siblings or parents is not always a community in which we have togetherness.
I think togetherness full stop is something most of us do not have. Most of us have parallel relationships without even knowing that aligned ones exists or how they look like.
At the moment where most of us have a chance to find aligned togetherness is in communities of our choice, like here on this blog and in the blogging community, at WomenLikeMe and everywhere else where people are seeking change in how they communicate together.
So where we think we should find togetherness most of us don’t, so Hilary I am pleased to have you here to enjoy your company and your astute comments, long may this continue, love Wilma

]]> By: Hilary http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2010/01/22/the-third-person-in-our-relationships/#comment-7896 Hilary Sun, 24 Jan 2010 08:18:08 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=3728#comment-7896 Hi Ann-Marie .. thanks for that. I absolutely agree we're all individual .. I think what I was trying to get over .. is the fact that being single - we don't' have the opportunity of togetherness .. so we make the decision - yet we need to take into account your post & remember that somehow someway we need to get to togetherness in spite of not having a partner. That will occur in all major (& if appropriate minor) decisions - it may not appear to matter to anyone but us, because we don't know the background - the reason we're being asked .. or the underlying other factors. Thanks for coming back to me! Go well and look after you and yours .. love Hilary .-= Hilary´s last blog ..<a href="http://positiveletters.blogspot.com/2010/01/bet-on-eleven-cities-tour-or-winter.html" rel="nofollow">A bet on the Eleven Cities Tour or the Winter Olympics being held?</a> =-. Hi Ann-Marie .. thanks for that. I absolutely agree we’re all individual .. I think what I was trying to get over .. is the fact that being single – we don’t’ have the opportunity of togetherness .. so we make the decision – yet we need to take into account your post & remember that somehow someway we need to get to togetherness in spite of not having a partner.

That will occur in all major (& if appropriate minor) decisions – it may not appear to matter to anyone but us, because we don’t know the background – the reason we’re being asked .. or the underlying other factors.

Thanks for coming back to me! Go well and look after you and yours ..
love Hilary
Hilary´s last blog ..A bet on the Eleven Cities Tour or the Winter Olympics being held? My ComLuv Profile

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