Comments on: Parallel versus aligned relationships and the difference it makes.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 06:45:45 +0000

Hi Graham, good on you to attend a course you enjoyed. Yes, keeping a problem in existence is something we are very good at, however manifesting a solution is of course the way to go but we are not that skilled in going there, are we?
Love Wilma

PS; well if you live off the land and in nature cleaning up your own garbage is part of the deal. And he had a great support team on the side line cheering him on :~)

By: Graham Southwell

Graham Southwell — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 06:16:00 +0000

Thanks Wilma,
I recently completed a short course in Psychosynthesis – and one of the key learnings for me was the idea that when you have a problem/issue/task that a key step is to ‘let it be’ to hold a point of tension between yourself and the issue – to create the space as it were – and to let the solution to the problem to manifest itself. I guess that this is along similar lines to what you are talking about here – so thanks for sharing your story.

Graham

PS I did feel sorry for John having to sort out the problem!

By: Wilma

Wilma — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 04:49:14 +0000

Oh Angelia, I too love the possibility of being with others in this way and it is possible if we can get an handle on that darn ego. And you are such a wonderful, wonderful person with such wonderful, wonderful people, children and dogs around you, to have ego talk destroy your peace.
Yes, the toilet is all fixed and let’s flush it all down and as you know the weekend was fun (in hindsight) as I really got to see what happened and I learned so much.
AND I actually love visitors, I do expect you all to come and visit one day AND have fun.
Big hug to you, Wilma

By: Angelia

Angelia — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 19:13:38 +0000

“A heart centered team comes from love, flexibility, co-operation, integrity and joy and produces phenomenal results while not sweating it in the process. ”

I love, love, love this quote! So honestly simple and straightforward and true.

This was a great day to read this post. My ego has definitely made a messy hole, much like your problem. I haven’t relaxed to “what is so”. I let it ramp up my anxiety for NO reason. Well, I am flushing that stuff down the toilet. (hopefully) One that works.

I hope you got all cleaned up in time for guests and it was a wondeful visit.

As always,
xoxoxox
Angelia

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 04:31:39 +0000

Hello, hello, our traveler friend, welcome back from Dublin. AM is so excited you went to her home town. I am dying to go and read your post on Ireland but we have an unexpected guest who needs attention and a daughter who wants to talk so I am caught. However tomorrow is another day.
Back to your comment, yes, there will be a lot of us having done what we have done.
AND I thought I was so clever, OMG. I too knew diddly squat about ME, all I knew was how to look good by doing everything but what I wanted.
I love your idea about a recovering people pleaser because you are not far off the money, I too was addicted to my role, at least my ego was and that was firmly in control. Talk about inauthentic!
Oh Peggy, I too am so pleased to become who I AM, and it must make us so much more effective and easier to love I am sure. Nobody can love a shadow, a puppet, a make belief.
I know you are more aligned, it shows in the results you are sharing and THAT my friend is your doing and you courageously taking the bull/the ego by the horns and going for seeing the wholesome ‘what is so’.
You rock and you deserve everything you now have and more.
xox Wilma.