Comments on: ‘What is so’ in relationships.

By: Angelia

Angelia — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:59:20 +0000

Wilma- This reply meant the world to me. Your kindness is infecting and uplifting. Thank you! Big hugs, and lots of love <3 xoxox
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By: Jenn Z

Jenn Z — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 23:31:09 +0000

Thanks Wilma! I am so blessed right now to have beautiful mentors like yourself come into my life! I learned so much from your last post and I love the idea of ’spinning’… it feels like a dance in learning this process on love’s journey! I am getting ready for my ’song’ and its so close, but I have to keep centering my heart.. this so helps.. and I noticed your next post is about this.. so I am heading over to read it! Thank you ahead of time! I will write more soon! ~Jenn
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By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 22:02:07 +0000

Oh Angelia, I see what Jason sees in you, beauty, wisdom and lots and lots of love.
Your ego is firmly in control about education, education on its own means diddly squat, just means you are part of an exclusive club based on copy cat knowledge NOT wisdom. Used like your ego is doing it, it is just like being impressed when someone has a ferrari and you don’t.
That ego stuff is not a sign of being wise and intelligent and capable of superior good living, that ego stuff relates to only having a lot of information available you can search and bring up like a google search engine does.
Oh Angelia, I am sooo delighted this has this effect on you, oh you and Jason shine and do not let anything dim that AND I won’t have it!!!!!
Angelia, my heart is thrilled, you champ, you keep observing, hugs and more hugs, Wilma

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:56:55 +0000

Oh yes, observing ‘what is so’ about the role we play can be shocking and yet very empowering. It still doesn’t mean like Hilary asked that our opinion about the other person changes to that the other person changes or that you have to continue to live with them.

But seeing what is so certainly hands the power back to you how you choose to be and how you to choose to act from a powerful position.
THAT makes all the difference, it stops you from being a puppet in the hands of your own ego and others.

I wish you a lot of strength to observe and to become powerful and remember to be gentle on yourself, you did the best you could with what you knew at the time.
Love Wilma

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:48:27 +0000

Hi Jenn,
Yes, Ann-Marie and I are finding lots of food for thought in all this as well.
No this is not silly;

I tend to disempower myself when I think I’m going to be disempowered. does that make sense? In fact I caught myself wanting to do that today.. (to protect my heart from the “fear” of possibly being hurt through a potentially rewarding mentoring relationship} why do we do these things ? It seems so silly!

Marianne Williamson too keeps saying we are fearful to be our greatness, we are fearful to shine and I think it is because in this world it is not encouraged and it has consequences that can be unpleasant.

We have learned so many things we are not even aware of that we have learned them and most of them do NOT serve our unique essential self but serve our ego and voila, there you have the tension between what our heart feels is good and what our mind feels it the ‘thruth’.
No wonder we are confused and there is no denying that we are.

Jenn, let this spin help you on your love journey, that is all Ann-Marie and I can really ask for, xox Wilma