Comments on: Regrets, mindclutter and weakness in completion. http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/ Doing things Differently Sun, 15 Jan 2012 00:44:46 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/#comment-6304 Wilma Sun, 04 Oct 2009 05:40:28 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=2814#comment-6304 Hi Hilary. You are amazing, that is doing completion with both your mother and uncle big time. It must be difficult and hard and emotional and loving all at the same time. It is hard to imagine. How amazing that they relate so well to your blog, it is a lovely blog though and your mister postman notes are a great addition so we know what is going on. I do hope you have some support as well, Hilary. you have mine in spirit but it would be great if there was some practical help as well. Best wishes as always and a hug to you, Wilma Hi Hilary.
You are amazing, that is doing completion with both your mother and uncle big time. It must be difficult and hard and emotional and loving all at the same time. It is hard to imagine.
How amazing that they relate so well to your blog, it is a lovely blog though and your mister postman notes are a great addition so we know what is going on.
I do hope you have some support as well, Hilary. you have mine in spirit but it would be great if there was some practical help as well.
Best wishes as always and a hug to you, Wilma

]]> By: Hilary http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/#comment-6269 Hilary Fri, 02 Oct 2009 06:32:43 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=2814#comment-6269 Hi Wilma .. what a lovely post. I totally endorse what you say, especially as I'm experiencing the last 'days' of my mother, who will live on, and my uncle, who sadly won't last long. My mother and i have have done a lot of talking - she doesn't open up much .. but we toddle along and are happy with things and have fun and laugh. I know she had a difficult life in parts and has contained herself and continues to do so - particularly as she is a prisoner in her own mind now - despite being lucid: it is very difficult. My uncle - has sadly just suddenly declined after falling in August triggering the cancer .. in 4 weeks he's gone down dramatically and it is terrible. We have had some good times and caught up somewhat on those long lost years, before I came into his life after his wife died, as the niece who was able to help. Both of them to my surprise totally relate to my blog .. and it's now one of the first things my mother asks about! They are brilliant - I must go now .. lots to do today, and I must prepare. I'll be back - all the best Hilary Melton-Butcher Positive Letters Inspirational Stories Hi Wilma .. what a lovely post. I totally endorse what you say, especially as I’m experiencing the last ‘days’ of my mother, who will live on, and my uncle, who sadly won’t last long.

My mother and i have have done a lot of talking – she doesn’t open up much .. but we toddle along and are happy with things and have fun and laugh. I know she had a difficult life in parts and has contained herself and continues to do so – particularly as she is a prisoner in her own mind now – despite being lucid: it is very difficult.

My uncle – has sadly just suddenly declined after falling in August triggering the cancer .. in 4 weeks he’s gone down dramatically and it is terrible. We have had some good times and caught up somewhat on those long lost years, before I came into his life after his wife died, as the niece who was able to help.

Both of them to my surprise totally relate to my blog .. and it’s now one of the first things my mother asks about!

They are brilliant – I must go now .. lots to do today, and I must prepare.

I’ll be back – all the best
Hilary Melton-Butcher
Positive Letters Inspirational Stories

]]> By: Jodi at Joy Discovered http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/#comment-6258 Jodi at Joy Discovered Thu, 01 Oct 2009 03:25:41 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=2814#comment-6258 Hi again Wilma, Thank you for your response...xoxox, Jodi Hi again Wilma,
Thank you for your response…xoxox, Jodi

]]> By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/#comment-6257 Wilma Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:25:23 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=2814#comment-6257 Kaushik, I acknowledge your acknowledgment. Thank you. Fear is a killer and yes be gone. Love Wilma Kaushik, I acknowledge your acknowledgment. Thank you.
Fear is a killer and yes be gone. Love Wilma

]]> By: Kaushik http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2009/09/28/regrets-mindclutter-and-weakness-in-completion/#comment-6255 Kaushik Thu, 01 Oct 2009 00:22:06 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/?p=2814#comment-6255 Wilma! A great post, on an important subject, and a beautiful reminder, to be present in our interpersonal relationships. We're reluctant because of fear--it's a glorious thing when we can release fear. k Wilma! A great post, on an important subject, and a beautiful reminder, to be present in our interpersonal relationships. We’re reluctant because of fear–it’s a glorious thing when we can release fear.
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