For a while I was just looking for a simple easy bum job to help cover my expenses with my trading business. The problem was I never really chose a bum job that I wanted to do. It was all interviews and turn downs, the roles I has been applying for were not focused on what I wanted. I had no idea.

Someone then told me to go into investments or banking as this is what I was doing in my spare time with trading. I never thought of that. I was now focused on one thing with laser beam precision thought. I had DECIDED my job, and then I claimed it as my own which was the CHOOSING part. Part of me was saying, “its mine.” “It belongs to me and I deserve it and I’m going to sell myself to the best of my ability to achieve it.”

The universe and I were in alignment and I got the job last week with the bank (of all places.) Great salary, great hours, great bonuses. Of course this is not to impress you but to impress upon you how things change when we choose.

In regards to getting stuck in life, there is something really interesting to point out. I have found that after going to the gym for over a year and a half now that as soon as I take 1 day off I start to perform the actions of someone not going to the gym. Day 2, Day 3, (if I let it go that far) my power is steadily decreasing and my actions and habits are aligning now with not being bothered. BUT, the reverse also happens, CHOOSE to go one day and I regain a tiny portion of that power to take action in the other direction. Day 2 is hard but not so much, Day 3 getting easier etc, etc.

BUT LOOK AT THIS when I chose not to go: Day 1 “This is hard to cope with I feel bad not going” Day 2 “This is feeling better I can get used to this” Day 3 “Ahhh what the heck, another day off.”

Whats the gem here? It gets easier either way we go lol.

Once we feel that slimy rut feeling of inaction coming on, it is the best time to take action in the other direction. Many of us don’t know this and we create boohoo stories about how unfortunate we are. I have done this when being out of action with something for too long. We don’t want to leave it this long to create a tipping point where we are forced to take action. Though for many of us, this is the best kick in the bum.

Choose one day at a time I feel and see where you are by the end of the week, month, year. For myself now, its hard to put the gym down.

I really hope this helps, people.

It’s so scary to make a real change in your life… but it feels so liberating when you finally do.