Comments on: Oohh! Why I am so happy now and what went wrong before. How to pan for gold in your relationships.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 01:14:03 +0000

Oh Laura, isn’t that interesting that your mother ’saw’ what was going on. However until we ’see’ it ourselves and then act, not much can be done.
Hm, I know, as a giver you do get depleted until there is nothing left.
However I can ’see’ that you are on the way to filling up again and you deserve to be full and whole again.

By: Laura

Laura — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:14:38 +0000

Everytime my mother gets to talking about my ex she says “he took all the time.” Mothers are always right. He was a taker and I was a giver, until I demanded getting something and that’s when the marriage fell apart. He couldn’t give, and I couldn’t give any longer.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 20:45:25 +0000

Yeah, the whole energy of the place would explode with goodness.
Sometimes my receiving gets confused with being dependent and vulnerable and comes from fear that I get too dependent.
I should know by now that I am not as reliable and capable as I think I am and that receiving won’t harm me at all.
There is indeed always a lot more to it and I love taking the time to unravel it.

By: Blair

Blair — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 07:38:54 +0000

Yeah its such a fascinating subject. Giving we excel at especially in times of need on a large scale, eg 9/11. Receiving seems such a bigger deal for us all though. Imagine everyone accepting and being grateful for it. The energy would bounce back and forth big time.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 00:55:49 +0000

Class Act again, Blair.
Had to laugh at your last words; “we weren’t designed to see in the dark”.
I am getting to see more and more that it is about connecting and daring to really ’see’ what is going on AND of course you need light for that.