Comments on: Dinner, Hair, Victoria Castle, Shane Mulhall and 3 ways to trust.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:24:35 +0000

@Liara, that is so beautiful and heartwarming that we become powerful to listen to our own listening.
I love my new assumptions as they ring more true and loving than the fearful one I am replacing, don’t you feel that too?
And Liara, I had a look at your blog, lovely content and thank you for your comment.

By: Liara Covert

Liara Covert — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 11:32:34 +0000

There is a lot to be said for learing to listen to yourself and what appears to be going on around you. Its possible to reframe your initial assumptions, shatter your own myths.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 03:07:00 +0000

Oh Bridget, I know, I know, learning to trust myself is a biggie.
No more blaming, excuses and denial?!
Letting this excuse go : “If they can’t do it, how can I??”
Tough, but you got a point, a good one….

By: Bridget Marsh

Bridget Marsh — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:27:08 +0000

So Trust is a learned behaviour. We learn distrust through all the untrustworthy experiences we have (parents who don’t keep promises, schools that create rules that no-one follows, advertising promises that are not upheld etc.) And we can learn to trust. Trust starts with ourselves and our own integrity. If integrity is missing in me, why would I think it exists in others (that would make me wrong! not a nice idea). First I need to learn to trust myself. My own behaviours needs to be worthy of trust, then I can begin to extend that to others with the hope of success.

Once I have learned to trust myself with some things I can learn more.

By: Wilma

Wilma — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:19:45 +0000

That is a great way to put it, watching how they achieve results in their life and wanting those too.
My intentions of watching them were a lot less noble to start of with though, I just wanted to see when they would fall on their face