Comments on: Doomed, security meltdowns. http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/ Being a strong basecamp Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:43:42 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3758 Wilma Sun, 22 Jun 2008 22:58:06 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/trek-education/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3758 @ Bridget. Well said, you have a point there when you talk about being trustworthy yourself and at the same time being in a 'we' mode without losing your self. I personally think that is a big journey and what it is all about. Knowing who you are; then others are not that frightening or threatening and they finally can become a real asset in your life. And I can so see the impact that episode in your life must have had, hah, talking about shock.....and the time it takes to recover.... Thanks for a great comment, hugs Wilma. @ Bridget. Well said, you have a point there when you talk about being trustworthy yourself and at the same time being in a ‘we’ mode without losing your self.
I personally think that is a big journey and what it is all about. Knowing who you are; then others are not that frightening or threatening and they finally can become a real asset in your life.
And I can so see the impact that episode in your life must have had, hah, talking about shock…..and the time it takes to recover….
Thanks for a great comment, hugs Wilma.

]]> By: Bridget Marsh http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3757 Bridget Marsh Sun, 22 Jun 2008 22:36:30 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/trek-education/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3757 Hi Wilm It seems to me that to rebuild trust in others, in organisations and in the world we first need to build the trust in ourselves. That we are whole,complete, perfect, lovable and TRUSTWORTHY. Once we give this trust out we will find that it comes back to us. An experience of trust that provides me with much learning is. As a gorgeous competent 26 year old in a relationship that had been agreed to be 'open' I slept with another man. The hatred, violence, venom that came my way as a result of this being discovered harmed me for many years. The journey to whole complete, perfect TRUSTWORTHY and trusting has involved letting go of it being about me, my ego, and recognising that if I had been about 'we' I could have communicated differently and in fact 'been' different and chosen differently. Growing up is a choice. And now I'm learning about structures and choice. And its fun again. love Bridget Hi Wilm

It seems to me that to rebuild trust in others, in organisations and in the world we first need to build the trust in ourselves. That we are whole,complete, perfect, lovable and TRUSTWORTHY. Once we give this trust out we will find that it comes back to us.

An experience of trust that provides me with much learning is. As a gorgeous competent 26 year old in a relationship that had been agreed to be ‘open’ I slept with another man. The hatred, violence, venom that came my way as a result of this being discovered harmed me for many years. The journey to whole complete, perfect TRUSTWORTHY and trusting has involved letting go of it being about me, my ego, and recognising that if I had been about ‘we’ I could have communicated differently and in fact ‘been’ different and chosen differently.
Growing up is a choice.
And now I’m learning about structures and choice. And its fun again.

love

Bridget

]]> By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3756 Wilma Sun, 22 Jun 2008 21:26:27 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/trek-education/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3756 @Pat. I do agree that it is wonderful to share a life in such a way and it is interesting to see how littlle it is happening even when people do live together. We are just not used to great quality communication and sharing. YOU are doing a good job to enhance joy, positive feelings are really important, more important than we think. Love Wilma :) @Pat. I do agree that it is wonderful to share a life in such a way and it is interesting to see how littlle it is happening even when people do live together. We are just not used to great quality communication and sharing. YOU are doing a good job to enhance joy, positive feelings are really important, more important than we think.
Love Wilma :)

]]> By: joyologist http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3755 joyologist Sat, 21 Jun 2008 11:58:31 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/trek-education/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3755 i know love envieth not.....but i do have some envy for your love and joy of and with each other....i find it in aspects but without a partner it is just not quite the same...it brought the biggest smile to my face just now...much love to you both...pat i know love envieth not…..but i do have some envy for your love and joy of and with each other….i find it in aspects but without a partner it is just not quite the same…it brought the biggest smile to my face just now…much love to you both…pat

]]> By: Wilma http://www.wilmasblog.com/leverage/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3754 Wilma Thu, 19 Jun 2008 01:36:22 +0000 http://www.wilmasblog.com/trek-education/2008/06/17/security-meltdowns/#comment-3754 @mesc. I think it is something we have to live with in the society as it is today. It is still all about competing for example. Being aware of it and encouraging a child to see the good bits counts for a lot, a lot more than we might think. It is gorgeous to see how she reacts to good news when you show her what she can do in this moment in time. And an anwer, wie zal het zeggen? bedankt voor het bezoek en je commentaar. @mesc. I think it is something we have to live with in the society as it is today. It is still all about competing for example. Being aware of it and encouraging a child to see the good bits counts for a lot, a lot more than we might think. It is gorgeous to see how she reacts to good news when you show her what she can do in this moment in time. And an anwer, wie zal het zeggen?
bedankt voor het bezoek en je commentaar.

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