
Our cat knew she was loved and never went in a frantic fearful pursuit of love.
To live life differently something has to fundamentally shift and for me it is my understanding of love.
I have the strong impression that love is THE most powerful energy and the key to become the change I want to see.
Thus I deem it worth coming to grips with.
One of my first understandings is that I actually do not understand ‘love’ very well at all, which is a bit of a shock as I use the word ‘love’ quite often.
There are also a lot of things and people in my life that I love.
However my recent observations have revealed that . . .
My relationship with love is one of fear, fear of losing what I love and it has nothing to do with love itself.
I hardly ever go to that place of love with the things and the people I love, where I do go to is a place of fear!

Here is the Alpaca jersey /jumper /sweater /pullover
I appreciated all your lovely support from the comments to this week’s post; Love is the real Father Christmas.
The big realization for me was that I find it easy to be love-in-action when I’m not attached to the outcome, when it is something like working with natural fibers which I innocently love and delight in.
I agree with Megan and Nadia:
We can manifest more easily when we are coming from love and being relaxed.
However have you too noticed you stop being love-in-action when you are not relaxed?
Have you noticed too that when you desperately want things to happen, when you deem it to be an important area of your life; for me they are areas such as money, relationships, and business, being relaxed and love go out of the window and so do the miracles?

Wilma and Ann-Marie working on do-ing enough during a WomenLikeMe meeting.
‘When is enough enough’ is a question I am sure Shakespeare would have loved to tackle if he had had a blog.
But seeing as he didn’t, I will give it a shot.
Life is busy.
There is a lot going on.
I have things to attend to, people to take care of and many tasks to complete.
On top of all that, I also have this blog as part of our fledgling business.
I am rushed off my feet most days and while at the end of some days I am knackered, I still question if I have done enough????
Hello Hello! What do I think I am so knackered from? What do I mean; have I done enough?
Yet, that question does pop up.
In the worst case scenario it causes anxiety and feelings of overwhelm. I even seriously consider that indeed I might not have done enough and that I should go and do some more.
Jeez, here I am knackered with a lot to show for it and I still want to flog this tired horse because it has not done enough?
If you too get a feeling that something doesn’t compute here, high five to you, because it doesn’t.
It does not compute as there will never be a state of having done ‘enough’.
NOT in this world, how it is today anyway.
Even if I did work harder, I will never be able to answer; “when enough is enough.”

Most of us want wealth and we want the universe to deliver it in great quantities please.
But although the universe is very powerful, it needs pipelines through which it can deliver the wealth.
You can compare the Universe and pipelines with Father Christmas and chimneys.
Another word for the pipeline through which the Universe can deliver is ‘Structure’.
Your ‘Structures’ are for the universe what the chimney is for Santa Claus!
Without ‘Structures’ the universe cannot deliver.