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When I held my baby in my arms, I felt more love than I ever had before.
On her 21^st birthday, I felt the same love mixed with sadness that I somehow had failed to put that love into action. I knew I had not given her the wisdom of a clear and honest woman. I knew I hadn’t role modeled well. I knew I have not given her a chance to be brilliant and gorgeous as a child of God is supposed to be.

On my blog I talk about my life of confusion and dishonesty, what it did to me and my loved ones and how I have turned it around.
I sincerely hope it gives you the inspiration that something can be done.

At the start of each week I publish on a specific topic that is inspired by what we are learning from the WomenLikeMe program. Then on Friday I publish a follow up post where I revisit the topic in the light of everyone’s comments.

Wilmas Blog is the sister site to WomenLikeMe; an online learning community for women.

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Where I am coming from

Once upon a time we were proud, capable women knowing what was good and building strong loving families. We knew what our role was and how to do it.
Then the wisdom that women had was eradicated. We became confused and muddled. This was my story too.

While we gained knowledge and careers, we became burdened by too many major roles. We started to limp in daily life, wondering how to do it all. On top of that our wisdom was taken over by an ego fed by a society who had values that were not serving human happiness.

The time has come to change that story, to stop limping. Ten years ago I set out to do my life differently; I realized that I had lost the plot. I began this new story, with my partner John, back to my indigenous self who confidently tackles life and the humans in it. The limp is gone.
What we have learned has become the practical WomenLikeMe program.
On this blog I share snippets of this journey and that happy fulfilled living is indeed possible.
I am now a woman who can lead a family.

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Regrets, mindclutter and weakness in completion.

Posted on September 28th, 2009 by Wilma (37 Comments)

Completion; John's Dad being showered with love.

“Completion brings harmony to your life and to relationships.
Completion is a great way to unclutter your world and your mind.
It’s worth your while to observe where your weaknesses are with completion.
(WomenLikeMe on Completion)

Completion relating to relationships refers to things such as wanting to say thanks to somebody but never getting around to doing it.

Oh, how this aspect of completion struck a cord with me! It hit a nerve big time.

The benefits of doing completion.

Posted on September 21st, 2009 by Wilma (29 Comments)

Completion! I am wrapping the presents and deliver them in the weekend.

“The concept of ‘completion’ can seem disarmingly simple, but for all its obviousness it is rarely well practiced.
This is to our detriment as not only does completion achieve the obvious of getting things done and done well, but it brings harmony to our lives, better relationships and a feeling of being in control and the master of our destiny.
Completion is both a habit and a skill that has far reaching beneficial consequences.”
(WomenLikeMe on Time and Completion)

Oh don’t I know it.
I am not a completion machine and I am becoming aware that I am missing out on the benefits, big time.

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